You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've been, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move on. It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories and dump the rest.
You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won't happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life." Then cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.
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This has a serious tone to it - hope you are all right, Maree.
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Aaaah yes Kathryn, I am al right NOW, but it's been a long 3-month journey (I wrote a short not here - http://hedgiesjoy.blogspot.com/2014/08/soar-like-eagle.html - to which you so sweetly replied with soft words, I appreciated that. We have two choices, stay stuck or move on and I decided to forgive (mostly for myself as I was feeling SO horrible), forgetting will hopefully soften with time...
DeleteMaree, I hope you can soon soar over all the troubles.
ReplyDeleteKathryn
Thank you Kathryn, all's well and the same wishes to you!
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